A quick comparison of 7 parenting styles (sub-styles). Choose the one that’s right for you.
Before we get started with the 7 parenting styles, I want to leave you with this reminder;
Parenting doesn't come with a rulebook, where every parent has their approach, chances are your method of parenting is a mix of styles. During those moments when doubt creeps in, remember that parenting is freaking hard, no kid is perfect and you are doing a great job!
Understanding Each of the 7 Parenting Styles
Every style of parenting comes with its set of pros and cons. What may be effective for one family might not necessarily be the best fit for another.
The key to parenting lies in your approach to meet the characteristics and needs of your child while also taking into account your family’s values, beliefs and cultural heritage.
When you become familiar with the following 7 parenting styles and their effects especially on your child, you will be able to make an informed decision on what is best for you both.
Now, lets take a peek at some of the more modern parenting styles today:
Attachment Parenting: Discovered in 1982 by William Sears a pediatrician.
Attachment parenting focuses on creating a connection between parent and child by engaging in activities like, always carrying your baby, allowing them to sleep in your bed and responding promptly when your child wants to be fed.
Supporters of attachment parenting advocate meeting the child's needs with understanding and care to build trust and a sense of safety.
It is believed that this type of parenting nurtures awareness and fosters secure attachments.
Positive Parenting: Discovered in the 1980’s by Dr. Jane Nelson
A group of children jumping between the rongs of a ladder that is lying on the grass of a play area.Positive parenting is about encouraging good behaviour instead of punishing bad behaviour.
It stresses the importance of communication, mutual respect and problem solving abilities.
Positive parents aim to show empathy, understanding and support creating an atmosphere where kids feel appreciated and empowered. What positive parenting IS NOT!
Helicopter Parenting: Discovered in the late 1980’s by Dr. Ginott
Overprotective parents known as helicopter parents tend to be deeply engaged in their child's life.
They closely watch over their child, overseeing their tasks and shielding them from setbacks and letdowns.
However, despite the parents meaningful intentions they are interfering with their child’s ability to become independent and learn to solve problems on their own.
A young boy wearing a cap and sporting a mustache, smiling playfully at the camera.Free-Range Parenting: Discovered in 2018 by parent Lenore Skenazy
Free-range parents encourage the idea of allowing their children the opportunity to learn from their mistakes, they are given the freedom to explore and learn from their surroundings.
Free range parents focus on teaching life skills, critical thinking and problem solving by allowing kids to engage in activities, like play, independent exploration and self guided learning.
However critics argue that free range parenting could potentially lead to safety concerns and might not be suitable for every child or environment.
A lively group of children jumping on a large rock at the beach, celebrating the joy of outdoor play.Lighthouse Parenting: Discovered in the 1970’s it is unknown who gets credit
Lighthouse parenting symbolizes providing children with direction and assistance while granting them the space to discover and form their own path.
The parents offer guidance and motivation without overseeing or dictating every aspect of their child's actions.
Lighthouse parenting encourages freedom, strength and self exploration while creating a nurturing environment filled with love and encouragement.
Eggshell Parenting: In reality it has been around since the 1930’s, however, since, nothing has been mentioned about it until recently when Dr. Kim Sage went viral on TikTok
Due to their parent’s constant mood swings, inconsistent reactions and outburst, kid’s feel like they’re walking on eggshells. The parent is fine 1 min and yelling the next.
Children often experience high levels of anxiety, insecurity and stress. As a result they learn to fear their parents reactions.
Gentle Parenting: It has received increased attention through social media and blogs
Gentle parenting highlights the importance of empathy, respect and effective communication when guiding children's behaviour and growth.
They use nothing but gentle discipline techniques such as setting limits and redirection and modelling good behaviour.
This style of parenting places an importance on promoting a trusting bond between parents and children.
Finding Your Parenting Style
A family of three stands closely beside each other, each placing one hand on top of the other, symbolizing the love and support among them.As parents we adjust our methods to suit the changing needs of our children and the dynamics within our family.
Understanding the previous 7 parenting styles and their impacts is crucial but there isn't a one size fits all solution to raising kids.
Rather, it’s about striking a balance that suits your family values and beliefs while considering your child’s individual personalities.
Reflect on your upbringing and the different parenting approaches you experienced. Evaluate the pros and cons of each style. How they shaped who you are today.
Define your parenting objectives and principles remaining open to trying out different approaches.
Keep in mind that parenting is about forming connections, it’s not about perfection. Even in the face of uncertainties and challenges, it’s really about being present and loving.
Ultimately, it’s all about your love for each other and a willingness to grow and learn with your child.
Embrace the journey as best you can, cherish the successes and view the challenges as an opportunity for growth.
I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “patience is a virtue” a true statement if I ever heard one. Implement that one into your life everyday.
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